Were now in June, 16 days from my 26th birthday and i am taking the time today to really analyze what is the real reason for a lot of our choices and decisions that we make? I have looked at so many different things Society, Music, Culture, Psychology and Politics- Yes they all play apart but i have decided to focus on:
EMOTIONS
I believe that our emotions drive us in our decisions but each individual feeling determines what we are going to do i.e Lust, Anger, Happiness, Anxiousness Lets Start with my first love......FASHION
I In this picture i was not in the best of moods and i again can see that it is reflected in my ALL BLACK outfit. Black is associated with DEATH and SADNESS when I am sad and not feeling my usual Bubbly self i wear Black clothing. My eye make up was black and bold along with my chosen accessories. I had received bad news day before and it had a impact on my overall August month.However Black can be Powerful and be used to make a statement. The only color injected in this picture is my Purple highlights- Can't completely hide away now can I! (Winks)
Every girl has that 'DRESS' this divine outfit, fits every curve perfectly, accentuates where it needs too, minimizes what it has too and you know when you put it on its gonna cause a problem! Beyonce made a song about it so if you don't have one you need to get one! This Dress plays with the emotion of Lust. We create that sexy inner Diva to play, captivate that particular male interest. Guys don't laugh you too have those jeans or that particular shirt that you put on that makes you look like you just stepped off the runway from London Fashion Week, That fragrance that electrifies a woman from across the room (PACO MILLION) to top it off you make sure before you step out you pop to the barbers to get a 'shape up or trim'. I have lived with a man I know the drill!
Clothing really does reflect your emotions. If your feeling slightly vulnerable for what ever reason or you lack confidence 9/10 I can identify YOU as you will be wearing some form of Knitwear i.e a Cardigan, Hat, Scarf or even a hood. This applies to men too! This is your physical safety net and you feel safe and secure shielded from the outer world. Clothing can provide such a comfort i know when i cant be bothered i throw on a boyfriend shirt & my favorite ripped baggy jeans or a Tracksuit! How does Anger affect your choices? When you are in angry mode- You don't want no one to bother you, be near you or in your personal space! Imagine your mood, embrace the facial expression, the pumped up chest, the brisk walk, the heavy legs and the fact that your 2 eyebrows are meeting because your frowning so hard now your just step out of Oxford Circus tube station or Time Square. So you got 1000's of people barging past you with there shopping bags, screaming babies, Ticket touts, Police Sirens then you in your haste get stopped by a lovely young girl called Jessica and she stops you and asks the following question: 'Would you like to donate money to the Great Ormond St appeal? Your Answer: No i flippin wouldn't Charity starts at home, have you not got a job to be at?Now normally you would politely say Yay or Nay or sorry i am in a rush thank you. Ok, i went a bit extreme but you get my drift.....As a easy influenced society we need to understand and learn to Master our Emotions, once we do this we can become personally more fulfilled and continue to be motivated and follow our dreams and destiny! Let Fashion be your Motivation and allow it to embrace your true style! Turn that frown into a smile! For more information on this read Tom Greens 48 Laws of Power - it is a insightful book and opens your eyes to a lot more than we allow our self to be! Let your heart be your guide if not Simone Karma Rae can change your mood, Mwah xx 